How To Communicate My New Born Baby To My Frinds

Nothomb

" The look is a choice. He who looks set to decide on such a thing and therefore necessarily excluded from the attention the rest of his field vision. It's what the look, which is the essence of life is first refusal.
live is denied. He who accepts things do not live longer than the opening of the lavatory. To live, must be able de ne plus bien visible sur le même plan, au-dessus de soi, the maman et le plafond. Il faut refuser one pour choisir des deux de s'intéresser soit à la maman soit au plafond. Le seul choix est mauvais the absence de choix. "

The look is a choice. The viewer decides to dwell on a thing and therefore excluded by the attention the rest of your field of view. In this sense, the gaze , which is the essence of life is above all a waste.
live means to refuse. Those who accept everything orifice is no longer alive to the sink. To live we must be able to not put more on the same plane, above themselves, the mother and ceiling. We must give up one of the two and decide to get involved or to the mother or the ceiling. The only wrong choice is not to make a choice.

(Amélie Nothomb - Métaphisique des tubes)